Tag: personal growth
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Deploying self-hosted LLMs in Prod

A practical walkthrough of deploying a self-hosted LLM on AWS EKS with dedicated GPU node groups, taints/tolerations for isolation, separate inference and app services, model-weight caching via volumes, and sizing guidance for VRAM/concurrency and warm GPU capacity.
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Building and Securing Publicly Facing AI Agents

A CV is compressed text. It is easy to skim, easy to misread, and hard to validate. So instead of publishing my background as static pages, I built a public, live AI agent on top of my Notion database. The goal is simple: don’t just read my CV. Interact with it. Ask questions in your…
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Hard-Learned Rules for Building Healthy Love

The Unlearning I used to think relationships were about doing everything right — being the provider, being admired, being chosen. After my divorce, I realized I hadn’t chosen love freely; I’d chosen what I thought I should choose. I was following a social script — the monogamous ideal, the “alpha male” role, and the pursuit…
