Juan Alberto López Cavallotti

Hard-Learned Rules for Building Healthy Love

The Unlearning I used to think relationships were about doing everything right — being the provider, being admired, being chosen. After my divorce, I realized I hadn’t chosen love freely; I’d chosen what I thought I should choose. I was following a social script — the monogamous ideal, the “alpha male” role, and the pursuit…

juancavallotti

October 27, 2025

mental health

experience, life, love, mental health, personal growth, relationships, writing

Building Self-Hosted AI: Connect 4 Game Insights

The author has created a Lab section on their website to share technology experiments, including a self-hosted Connect 4 game featuring AI. The game allows human players to compete, providing data for improving the AI. Utilizing Google Cloud tools, they established a reliable deployment architecture that captures realistic gameplay and enhances machine learning model training.

juancavallotti

October 20, 2025

Machine Learning, Software Engineering, Technology

ai, artificial-intelligence, Machine Learning, personal growth, Software Engineering, Technology, writing

I Stopped Using Social Media and This is Why

Over three months ago, I decided to quit using social media. The pressure was building up for me to find a job, and Meta had just rejected me without any explanation. Looking back, had I been offered a job in Meta, this post would be a complete hypocrisy from me. During those three months, I…

juancavallotti

August 25, 2024

Uncategorized

coaching, experience, personal, personal growth, social media