Tag: life

• Hard-Learned Rules for Building Healthy Love

  

  The Unlearning I used to think relationships were about doing everything right — being the provider, being admired, being chosen. After my divorce, I realized I hadn’t chosen love freely; I’d chosen what I thought I should choose. I was following a social script — the monogamous ideal, the “alpha male” role, and the pursuit…

  juancavallotti

  October 27, 2025

  mental health

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